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Writing Rules I Can Live With

By Susan Mark
Photo by Susan Mark

I chafe at lists of writing rules, all the nevers and don'ts that imply there is one way to tell a story. If I want to use a dialogue tag other than "said," Mr. Leonard, I will. (She opined.) Despite that, a few years ago I wrote my own list that I'm reposting this morning.

RULES FOR MY KITCHEN

Coffee first, then food.
Live dangerously. Lick the batter off the spoon.
Eat what you want. Listen to your body.
Make a mess. Clean it up.
I love you, but stay out of my kitchen when I cook.
Food is forgiving. Create recklessly.
Recipes are mere suggestions. Experiment.
You can never go wrong starting dinner with sizzling onions.
Although there are limits. Sizzling onions over ice cream? Doubtful.
On the other hand, I could be mistaken. Try onion ice cream if you want.
When in doubt, err on the side of too much butter.
Vanilla, too. Measure it over the bowl so the extra spills over.
Garlic makes life complete.
Fresh is better.
Invest in good knives. Chop with confidence.
There are no rules.


RULES FOR MY WRITING

Coffee first, then writing.
Live dangerously. Release the muse.
Write what you want. Listen to your soul.
Make a messy first draft. Clean it up.
I love you, but stay out of my room when I write.
Words are forgiving. Create recklessly.
Writing guides are mere suggestions. Experiment.
You can never go wrong finding the sizzling, red-hot core of your story.
There are no limits to that sizzling core.
I am not mistaken on this one.
When in doubt, err on the side of too much writing time.
Self-care, too. Fill yourself until you overflow.
Words make life complete.
Fresh is better.
Invest in your editing. Chop with confidence.
There are no rules.

Comments

  1. Art ElserFebruary 2, 2021 at 7:33 AM

    Yes, Susan, this was well worth reposting. Love the writing rules. I'm reminded of Jane Reichhold's several pages of rules, the last one of which, is "Break all the rules." Yes!

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    1. Writing WyomingFebruary 4, 2021 at 5:46 AM

      My favorite take on writing advice is from Chuck Wendig. He says that all writing advice is BS, but sometimes BS fertilizes.

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  2. Tracy LockenFebruary 3, 2021 at 12:59 PM

    "I love you, but stay out." Yes!
    And coffee first. Always, always coffee first. :D

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    1. Writing WyomingFebruary 4, 2021 at 5:47 AM

      If I ever need a blood transfusion, they'll have to mix it with dark roast so my body doesn't go into shock ;)

      Thanks for stopping by!

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